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Frequency Levels, Vibrate Higher, To Attract Much Better

Keep your head up, your frequency is changing, you are entering into a season where you will experience breakthrough after breakthrough, simply because what you went through didn’t break you. It’s Friday, and as we all get ready to take on the weekend, I sincerely hope that everyone is happy and doing well, but if not, here is a little reminder of how you can rise above, and think above, the “frequency” of negativity, depression, sadness, and stress, so you can get to your happy place. This is what my posts are for. Yes they are for the purpose of helping those who are already on the right track stay on the right track…But most of all, they are for helping those who are broken, lost, and suffering, find healing…then get on the right track and stay there. I do it because I have been on the wrong track before, I know what it feels like because I have lived the life. But now that I have discovered a better way, all I want to do is share it with others. So I hope somebody will be blessed, healed, or helped today.

Think of your mind as a cell phone, television or radio antenna, which picks up and tunes in to different “frequencies” and “radio waves”, floating around in the atmosphere. These “frequencies” and “radio waves” are made up of the trillions of thoughts 💭 broadcasted and emitted from every human being on earth 🌏, every second. So what you have to do in order to keep up your spirit, motivation, and happiness, is to tune in to the “station” that suits you. Find the frequency of the thoughts that make you feel happy, good, and purposeful about yourself and about your life. Literally, there are thoughts floating around from children in kindergarten, on the frequency of “happy & care free, and what time is play time & lunch”. There are thoughts floating around from college students on the frequency of “I can’t wait to graduate and get a job, I hate school”. There are thoughts floating around from the sick and dying on the frequency of “Lord take me now. I don’t see the use in fighting anymore, it’s hopeless.” There are thoughts floating around from the poor, miserable and degenerate on the frequency of “I am a victim of circumstances, why do the worse things in life always have to happen to me? Life is so unfair, I can never catch a break. I have no luck, I am stuck, there is no way out”. There are thoughts floating around from the rich and abundant, the problem solvers, the smart and the wise, on the frequency of “How do I solve this problem? I know I can do better, I have to do better. I create my own circumstances, I am the master of my destiny. People respect me, people love me. I am strong, I am kind, I have more than enough to share and to give a way. I have to be successful because my success inspires others.” Einstein said…”Everything is energy, and that’s all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality that you wish to obtain, and you can’t help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy, this is physics.” How true this is. Many times times when we are tuned into a bad frequency, we don’t even remember that we have a choice, that we can snap out of it and change our “station”, so that our minds begin to pick up on good vibrations that serve us, not bad vibes that hurt us. I for one know that this is always easier said than done, for it is one thing to remain Cool 😎, Calm, And Collective under pressure, and it’s another thing to be blinded by arrogance, ignorance, and anger, and just explode. But the mastering of this skill, is found in the mastering of our Attitudes.

Words would fail me if I should ever attempt to fully explain the incredible impact of our attitude in regards to our lives…But the longer I live, the more convinced I become, that life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% what you do about it. I believe that the single most important decision you can make on a day to day basis, is choosing the right attitude. It is more important than your past, your education, your paycheck, your successes or your failures, your fame or your pain, what other people think of you or say about you, your circumstances or your status. Your attitude is what keeps you going, and also what cripples your progress. It alone fuels your fire 🔥 or extinguishes your hope. When your attitude is right, there is no barrier too high, no valley too deep, no dream too extreme, no challenge too great for you to overcome. Also, affirmations are another big booster in helping us to cultivate positive attitudes. Affirmations repeated several times each day, every day, serve to reprogram your Subconscious mind with positive thinking. An affirmation is made up of words charged with power, conviction, and faith. Believe it or not, but every time you speak, the atoms/cells of your body are affected; their rate of vibration is either raised higher, or lowered. This process involves repetition, feeling, and visioning. For without a vision, you the spirit, along with your mind and your body will perish. An affirmation is a method of instilling something positive in your conscious and subconscious minds. It may involve something that you hold inside of your heart to be true, even when all external evidence appears to favor the contrary. An affirmation contains the evidence of your belief, attitude, and motivation. You send a positive response to your subconscious mind, which accepts whatever you give to it as true, and begins rearranging your life immediately to carry it out. Hence the reason why when done properly, this triggers positive feelings that, in turn, drive action. Visioning is the process that allows you to see the affirmation play out in your mind, long before it takes physical form in your life. Then once you can really see it in your mind, you will definitely hold it in your hand.

Whenever we feel broken, our spirits usually know exactly what to do to heal itself, but our biggest problem always come when it’s time to silence our minds. If we can overcome this challenge, then everything else will eventually fit into their correct place. Your mind is the biggest illusion creator of all, and when given a chance to run free, uncontrolled, and unmonitored, it congers up all sorts of scenarios and stories that will never happen. If you believe in God any at all, then you already know from experience that he has weapons that you know not of. That he will make a way through the wilderness and a river through the desert. His power levels mountains and fills in valleys. His might is unfailing, his methods know no error. His abundant hand is never short. And best of all, his grace, love and mercy knows no bounds. When you become confident in the fact that the God who has been keeping you from you were conceived in your mother’s womb right up until now, his ways are passed finding out, it gives you hope in the future, which in turn gives you power in the present. Nothing in life is a coincidence, all life events will eventually serve their purpose in due time. We never usually can connect the dots looking forward, but we will always be able to connect them looking back. Then we will be able to say, “Ohhhh Kaaay!!! That’s why I needed that lesson.”

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Goodness & Faith Are Your Indestructible Sword & Shield

Let me first start off by saying that “Faith is Focus”. You have to believe in what you want so much that it has no choice but to manifest for you. You remember when you were young and used to believe in fairy tales?? Well now that you are older, you may not believe in fairy tales anymore, but if you want to accomplish and achieve, then you have to believe in yourself, your Goals and your Dreams with the same “childish” belief that you had in fairy tales. “For unless we become as little children we cannot enter into the Kingdom.” We cannot achieve anything in life without Faith and Belief in our ability to do it, but sometimes when the pressures of life hits, then out the window goes our faith. Jesus Christ the Master Teacher didn’t say that weapons would not form, but he did promise that they would not prosper. Let us never forget that long suffering is also a fruit of the spirit, so in order to get to some stuff, we first have to go through some stuff. Life has no free ride, but don’t let the struggles turn you bitter. Continue to do good while keeping your eyes on the prize. Not me, not you, not anyone is going to hit as hard as life, but when you endeavor to maintain the goodness within your heart while navigating your way through it all, then I promise you, no weapon shall ever proper.

Nothing in life protects your best interests like when you endeavor to practice to live in God-ness and Goodness. This doesn’t only mean mere conformity to outward morality, it means doing your best to keep your thoughts pure and true no matter what. Do your best to keep your aspirations noble, to keep your love pure and unselfish, and also doing your best to abstain from seeking vain glory, which many of us love to do. When we do something for somebody, let us do it because we love them and want to help them, not for mouth praises or so that we can hang it over their heads or talk about it later on to make ourselves look big. Instead, when practice goodness in thought and all that we do, we circle ourselves with an invisible protective power, where no harm can befall us and anyone who comes into real contact with us, must be blessed by our energy. Maintain goodness inside of you, and express goodness outside of you. Where there is sterling Faith and uncompromising purity, there is Health, there is Success, and there is Blessing. In such a person, disease, failure, or disaster can find no life, because inside their hearts they harbor no ill feelings, which is only food on which those things feed.

True health and true success go together. Simply because they are one in the Universal Mind. Where one dwells, the other must abide also. As mental harmony produces bodily health, so it also leads to a harmonious sequence in the actual working out of our plans. Order your thoughts, and you will order your life. By the power of faith every goal you set is accomplished. You must have faith in the Supreme, faith in Universal Law, faith in what you are doing and faith in your ability to achieve. Faith is the rock upon which you must build if you want to achieve your goals. If you want to stand tall and not fall, you have to focus on faith. You should practice following your intuition as best and as much as you can. Most of us will find this difficult until we begin to see with our Spirit and not with our eyes. Simply because intuition never explains itself and never reasons, it just simply points the way, it is up to us to follow in faith. Pursue your dreams with everything in you, because as long as you believe that the laws of the universe cannot fail, they will not fail you.

This is both faith, and the living of faith. By the power of such a faith, the dark waters of uncertainty are divided, every mountain of difficulty crumbles away, and the believing soul passes through the valleys of death, disappointment, delusion, and destruction, unharmed. We must strive to obtain above everything else, the priceless possession of this fearless faith. For it is the talisman of happiness, of success, of peace, of power, and of every good thing that will allow you to rise above all suffering in life, no matter what kind of problems you may go through. This kind of faith is more precious than any materialistic object that you could ever acquire in life, because through this faith, you can acquire any materialistic thing that your heart desires. With this faith, you build your “house” upon the eternal rock, and whatsoever you build, can never be moved. With that said, we must always remember, that we need to constantly exercise our faith. Use it in your best days, not only your worst. Through this faith, we tap into our Spiritual Strength and Power. This in turn forms a protective layer around our lives, that shatters into pieces, like glass, any kind of evil that is thrown our way. We then rise & strive and reach into successful positions of power and influence, that “normal people” only dream about. People of undaunted and unwavering faith, through the power of their spoken word, have cast mountains of sorrow and disappointment, of lack and limitation, of mental weariness and physical pain, into the deep blue sea 🌊 of oblivion, never to be seen again. Such is the “Mystique” of every Man, Woman and Child, who endeavors to cover themselves with the Faith that lives in the goodness of Universal Power.

In closing, I just want to say that when you acquire this kind of faith, you will never need to worry about success or failure, because you will know that success must come to you. In that case you stop worrying about results and just keep on putting in your work joyfully and peacefully, knowing that right thoughts and right efforts, must inevitably, bring about right results. God Bless You and Thanks for reading 📖.

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Competition Never Compares When You Stay Focused

If you want to live in peace and enjoy real progress and prosperity, only compete with yourself. Keep the competition between You and You. Successful people are never ever worried about what the other person is doing, because they are way too busy working on themselves. I mean they might take notice 👍, but they are never worried 😟. Besides, the only person you should be trying to be better than, is the person you were yesterday. Enough is here to share for everybody, and it is very unfortunate that some people can’t see that. However, as harsh as this might sound, that is not your problem. He who has eyes to see, let him see…& he who has ears to hear, let him hear. I am only here to teach you how to get yours, because believe it or not, true and lasting prosperity will only come to those who are kind hearted, loving, generous, trustworthy, full of faith, and integrity conscious. The person who is not willing to cultivate and harbor these qualities in their heart, will never know “true riches”. Because prosperity, just like happiness, is an inward conditioning, and not something that is to be found outside of ourselves. In other words, it is a state of mind. Greedy people may become Millionaires yes, and even Billionaires, but inside their hearts, as long as their number one motive for accumulating money and land is greed, then they will always be wretched, mean, and poor. And no matter how much land and money they have, as long as there is someone else in the world that has more than they do, they will always feel like they don’t have enough. On the other hand, the person who is upright, kind and loving, even though they may not seem to have much on the external at the moment, as long as they make their passion and their gifts their life’s work, while holding to the vision, never complaining, and keeping strong and steady faith in the powers of the Law, sooner or later, riches and prosperity must become theirs. For whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. The laws of the Universe cannot lie or fail.

Just think about it, Mother Nature gives us everything we will ever need in order to live, survive, and thrive, and she holds noting back. You know what the beauty about this is, the fact that she ends up losing nothing in return. Even when we attempt to destroy her for our own personal gain, she always finds a way to regenerate and replenish herself. The lesson from that scenario is…Never get caught up into a belief that by continuously doing the right thing, you will somehow get used, discarded, or lose out on what is rightfully yours in any way shape or form. “I will restore unto you the years which the locusts have eaten” saith the Lord/Law. Never under any circumstances let the bitterness of any competition, or competing with anyone outside of yourself, in this life, turn the ways of your heart from good to evil. Never ever let the word competition shake or wobble your faith in the supremacy of righteousness. Dishonesty and deceit only travels one road, which eventually if not immediately, leads to death and destruction. Therefore, in all instances, always strive to do that which you believe is right, and then trust the law. Trust in the Divine Power that is imminent in the Universe, and it will never ever desert you. Instead, it will always protect you and all of your interests. When you put all your trust in divine law, all your losses must the converted into gains, and any competition that has ever threatened your well being must be converted into blessings. Never stop practicing integrity, generosity, and love, because when you combine these attributes with your gifts, passion, and life’s work, they create magic. Magic that has the power to lift you up from the depths of poverty, and place you upon prosperous heights. Just imagine 💭 if we decided to collaborate instead of compete…Our souls would expand, our hearts would reach out to each other in generous warmth, and long and lasting would be the prosperity that comes to us. But those who have wandered away from the high-way of righteousness, must endeavor to find a way to guard themselves against “unfair” competition…While those who are always trying to do the right, never ever have to worry about such things. This statement is no joke. For time and time again, we see people who by the power of integrity and faith, have defied all competition and odds, and never even had to alter or change any of their methods. We have also seen where these people, when competed with, have risen steadily into prosperity and riches, while those who were trying to undermine them, fell into the pit of defeat. For “The angel of the Lord (the workings of the law) encampeth round about them that fear him, and delivereth them.” King David, Psalms 34 verse 7.

When we think about the fact that the Universe holds within it, an abundance of every good, blessed, and wonderful thing that our hearts could ever aspire to having, both material and spiritual, then attempt to compare that to the blind eagerness of competing with others in order to secure a few gold coins, a few acres of dirt, or some superficial level of boastful fame, it just does not add up. It doesn’t make any sense. So it is then that we realize how dark and ignorant selfishness is. It is then and only then that we realize that self-seeking and self-gratification, is self-destruction. It is a known fact, amongst all Spiritual Teachers, that self-gratification only leads to one thing, and that is more self-gratification. We should aspire “to be”, more than how we desire “to have”. Competing with others becomes unnecessary when we understand Spiritual Law. Because we then know that what is ours by divine right, must come to us no matter what. Even if it does so in a round about way. And it must manifest under grace, in a perfect way, for the harmony and good of all those involved. I believe that is why Bob Marley said that if his life is just for him alone he doesn’t want it, because his life is for the people. He understood the law. Universal Law, just like the law of electricity, must be understood, respected and obeyed before it becomes our servant, because the law obeys man, only when man obeys the law. Why do you suppose I keep on giving away all this information for free?? When most people would be charging you for it?? Because I understand the Law. Giving opens the door for receiving, and the easiest and quickest way to make a million dollars is to bless and to touch in a positive way, the lives of a million people. We must at first bless others if we wish to obtain blessings. Therefore I am not the least bit worried about any competitor or competition, because I know that sooner or later, I must get “paid” for what I am now doing for “free”. Only the foolish wish and grumble, the wise work and wait. For the law is unerring and unfailing, its powers levels mountains and fills in valleys, and knows no defeat. When my family is sleeping, I stay up all hours at nights writing these posts, to share my knowledge so that somebody can be blessed. Nobody asked me to do it, but God put it in my heart to do it, therefore I must do my fathers work. I don’t do it solely for money, material, or gain, instead I do it to help people first. However, I know that as per the infallible and unchanging Law, I must be rewarded. Sooner or later, the spiritual seeds that I am planting in the invisible, must come to fruition in the visible. And even if not immediately, then eventually, because God doesn’t need any “time” to do anything. Your entire life can change for the better in the blink of an eye. That’s why we must endeavor to stay in our lanes, keep up our faith, never pay too much attention to what anyone else is doing, and just keep on perfecting our goodness upon our neighbors. Because what seems to be taking forever to us, is just a snap of Gods fingers. Repeat this statement until it it written on your heart and branded in your mind, “I compete with no one outside of myself, because if I am about God’s business, or any part thereof; which is giving, and helping people, and I sure am. Then God, by his very nature, is for me, so who can be against me?? With this understanding, I now know, that there isn’t any power in heaven, or on earth 🌏, that can withhold success from me.”

In closing I would like to say that, to posses the inward qualities which constitute goodness, righteousness, justice, strength, power, and truth, is to be armored against all the workings of evil, and to be twice as much protected in every instance of trial. When we build ourselves up in these qualities, then we build up a Success which cannot be shaken or stirred by any competition outside of ourselves, and then and only then, do we enter into the prosperity which will last throughout the ages, and also endure forever. At this point in time, money, land and fame will become no object. God Bless You and Thanks for reading 📖.

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Billion Dollar Companies That All Started From A Dream

Cocoa Cola was invented by a doctor 👨‍⚕️, and the recipe along with the copper pot and the wooden spoon 🥄 which were used to make it were bought from the doctor by a pharmacist for US$500. You can’t blame the doctor because all he needed at the time to clear his debt was US$500, but the pharmacist had a vision. Today Cocoa Cola is worth US$188 Billion. The McDonald’s brothers were bought out by the milkshake machine sales man who they took on as a third partner after he had sold them 8 milkshake makers. All they were selling at the time in their small single restaurant were cheeseburgers 🍔, sodas, and milkshakes. However the line was out the door and wrapped around the building. The milk shake machine salesman 👨‍💼 had vision. McDonalds is now the #1 fast food franchise in the world 🌎 and is worth US$100 Billion. Google was founded September 4, 1998 by Larry Paige and Sergey Brin in a friends garage in California. Google is the biggest brand in the world 🌎 today with a net worth of US$229.2 Billion. When the class where Fred Wallace, the founder of FedEx was in, was asked by their college professor to submit a paper 📝 outlining a comprehensive and workable business plan for a start up, Wallace handed in his paper, and was told that FedEx was impossible, and that it would never work. We all see how that turned out right?? Adolph Dassler, founder of Adidas, began making sports shoes in his mother’s wash room along with his older brother Rudolph who founded Puma. Nike was founded by a coach and a student at the University of Oregon in 1964, and was originally a distributor for asics, the Japanese footwear company. But when I say distributor I really mean out of the trunk of their car 🚗. Today Nike is the biggest apparel company in the world 🌎 grossing over US$30 Billion per year.

It’s obvious that it’s not where you start, but it’s how far you have made up your mind to go. There are countless other success stories where people came from nothing to something with only an idea 💡, their work ethic, and their Dream. Apple, Microsoft, Amazon, Ralph Lauren, Dominoes Pizza, Papa John’s, KFC…You name it. But one thing I know for sure, is that it wasn’t easy. I wasn’t there, but I can tell. Many business owners can tell you stories about when they were working on their dream and nobody believed in them. Their lights were cut off, their car 🚗 was repossessed, they lost again and again and again, but they kept running 🏃 towards their Dream. Life will yield to you when you don’t give up. When you are working on your Dream, especially if it’s one that most people won’t understand, just keep in mind that it’s going to be hard, but in the end it will be worth it. Easy is not an option. Defeats, disappointments, failures and setbacks are inevitable. Challenges are going to hit you by the truckloads, but if it was easy, then everybody would be skinny, rich, and happy. All I’m saying is don’t give up on your Dream. When the hard times come, remember they did not come to stay, they come so that they can pass. Whatever your Dream is that you are working towards, and working on, don’t give up. Many of the wealthiest people we know, found their greatest success, just one step, beyond their greatest failure. God Bless You and Thanks 🙏 for reading 📖.

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Chances Are, Some Will Support You, & Some Just Wont

It happens to all of us right? We simply outgrow people. It comes with maturity. Once your mind is expanded with a new idea, the effect cannot be reversed. Then you realize that when you try to relate the idea to some people who you thought were close to you all along, they just won’t get it. If they can’t see it for you then that’s okay, because you can’t force them to. Chances are if someone can’t see greatness for themselves, they won’t be able to see it for you either. Don’t waste your time trying to convince anybody, just Bless them and move on. One day they are going to say, “I knew you could do it.” Yeah right, laugh out loud 😂, anyway, they already blew their chances.

The people who support you though, through thick and thin, your corner stones, they are precious and few. Don’t forget them, don’t leave them out, keep them close to your heart. Honest people who genuinely cheer for you when you “win” are very rare Gems 💎 in today’s society. So when you find them, keep them.

Last but not least, do not blame yourself for anything. Every situation in your life has molded you into the person you are today. If you love who you are great then 👍, but if you don’t, then that’s what this website is for. Contact us, let us help you, teach you, and show you how to live your life to the fullest with no regrets. The people who are meant to stay in your circle, will stay. And the people who are meant to leave, will leave. Don’t stress yourself about it. Just continue to focus on your journey along with the task at hand. Do you and you’ll be fine. God Bless You and Thanks 🙏 for reading 📖.

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Field Goals & Touchdowns Will Come, After The Tackles

If You can’t make up your mind about Success, then Success will not make up it’s mind about You. If your dream is to become successful, in any field of your choice, then you know that there is no such thing as playing it safe. Once you get out on this field of play called life, there are going to be risks involved. So when the tackles begin to come in, it is important to remember that not me, not you, not the other person…No one is ever going to hit as hard as life. So the true test of you is going to be how hard you can actually get hit, and still keep moving. Some days you will have the strength to deal with it, & some days you simply just won’t. Plus some days all you will be able to do from your side is just smile through all the bullsh*t. Your endurance will be tested over and over, time and time again. When you get punched in the gut and dropped to your knees, will you be able to get back up, brush off yourself and try again? Isn’t that why the race is not for the swift, but rather for those who can endure till the end? Because times are going to come when life is literally going to suck the living life out of you, and you are going to feel like dying, like you want to let go, like you can’t hold on, like you want to give up, like you just want to die. Sometimes even the dirt from the playing field is going to get kicked into your eyes and you won’t be able to see let alone walk, or run. You are human, of course life is going to get to you sometimes, but you can’t give up, cry it out, refocus and move on. Like it or not, we are all in this b*tch now, so we might as well be in it to win it. If you get knocked down 7 times, stand back up 8. Be like “Cool Hand Luke” and refuse to get knocked out. It is okay to fall down and lose your spark ⚡️ every once in a while, everyone does, but just make sure that when you get back up, you rise as the whole damn fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥!!! Walk into your “House of Problems”, and burn that sh*t to the ground. Never you ever ever give up. Thanks 🙏 for reading 📖 and God Bless You.

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Sail Setting, Finding & Working Your Personal Philosophy

Jim Rohn, one of my favorite mentors, spoke and taught a lot about the “setting of a better sail” when he was alive. (Rest In Paradise Sir). He explained that the setting of the sail had to do with the philosophy that you have adopted for your life. In other words, what you believe is possible for you. Whether we are willing to acknowledge it or not, here is the truth though…Our Personal Philosophy is the major determining factor in how “good” or how “bad” our life turns out. Because what we subconsciously believe is possible for ourselves, is exactly what we are going to subconsciously work towards. However, once we have adopted our philosophy and begin working on our Goals and Dreams, we have to keep in mind that there will be no such thing as smooth sailing. Which brings me to my next point.

Another of my favorite mentors, Mr Zig Ziglar (Rest In Paradise Sir) would say, “When the outlook isn’t good, and it often isn’t, then try the up look, it’s always good.” When you can train yourself to see the good in every situation, no matter how bad it might seem on the surface, you have already won at life. Whenever you decide to change your life for the better, you will have to climb up to the top of your “ship” and set a different kind of sail. A word of advice, when you are up there don’t look down…Because when you behold the raging seas 🌊 of negativity, possibility of failure, criticism, & ridicule beneath you, trying to fall you so it can swallow you up and drown you out, you might just get scared and let go. Always look up, never look down. Plus most importantly, when you embark on your new journey, on new roads which lead to new places, don’t look back either, because you are not going that way. Keep laser focused on the Goal ahead and never take your eyes off the prize. Success is a combination of all your efforts, in an all out assault on your Goal, aimed in one particular direction. Focus, Confidence, Patience, Determination, and Persistence are the names of the game. God Bless You and Thanks 🙏 for reading 📖.

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Edison Never Gave Up, Not Even After 10,000 “Failures”

“The most sure way to succeed, is to always try just one more time.” Thomas Edison, Inventor of the Electric Light Bulb 💡. After 10,000 attempts, people started asking Edison, can’t you see you have failed, why don’t you just give up? But Edison replied, I have not failed, i have only found 10,000 other ways in which the Electric Bulb doesn’t work. Then on his 10,001 attempt, he got it. NEVER EVER EVER GIVE UP HOPE. If you are attempting something and it hasn’t worked out for the first 1-5 times, trust me, you are running about average. The secret though is to never give up. When you are on your way to manifesting your Goals and you are met with obstacles along the way as you oftentimes will; You should simply change your methods and directions to reach your Goals, You should never change your decisions to reach them. Many successful people’s biggest successes came right off the heals of their biggest failures. Sometimes right off the heals of outright catastrophe; & if they had given up, if they hadn’t tried just one more time, they would have lost at Life. “Today is cruel, tomorrow is crueler, & then the next day is beautiful.” Jack Ma, Chinese Billionaire and Founder of Alibaba.com . When you learn to hold on tenaciously, and do it and do it and do it no matter what, then Life will yield to you, and give you what you want. You have to be like “Cool Hand Luke”, when everybody thinks that you are defeated, that you are knocked down and knocked out, get back up and keep on swinging. Because at some point in time when your opponent thinks that they have got you beat, and stop paying attention, you are going to land the knockout punch. Your Dream Is Possible. So Keep Trying, Keep Trying, and Keep Trying. God Bless You & Have A Wonderful Day 🙂.

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Cerebral Palsy Is NOT A Death Sentence To Your Child

When David Lofchick was born, he was too young at that point in time to know what believing in himself was…But thank goodness, he had a father who did. You see, when young David was about 6 months old, his mother and his father Bernie, realized that there was something wrong with their son. They noticed that his head hung way too low on his right side, and he drooled way too much for a normal child. When Mr and Mrs Lofchick took young David to the Dr, the Dr examined him, misdiagnosed him, told his parents that it was something minor, and assured them that they should not worry about it, he would grow it out. However, you know that when it’s your child, you worry about it. So this time, Mr and Mrs Lofchick took David to a specialist. After a very careful examination, the specialist looked at Mr and Mrs Lofchick and said, “your son is a spastic, he has cerebral palsy. He will never be able to walk or talk or count to 10. So the best thing for you to do, in the interest of the normal members of the family is to put in a home for the handicapped. However, the Lofchicks could not conceive of the idea that their son, would grow up to be a vegetable, and an absolute nothing. That was not the idea they had for young David, especially his father. They had already got their two girls, and Here came the son which allowed for their joy to know no bounds. They as a family, collectively decided, that they would not tolerate cerebral palsy.

So they asked the specialist if he knew of any other specialists where they could go and get a second opinion. The specialist got up on his high horse and said “the advice I gave you is the best you’re ever going to get, so I suggest you take it”, and just like that, he meeting was over. However, Bernie Lofchick, didn’t take it. In fact he took young David to see 30 more different specialists, and all of them told him he same thing, that his son was a spastic, he has cerebral palsy. He would never walk, talk, run 🏃, skate or ride a bicycle 🚴 or count to ten. But finally, Bernie Lofchick heard of a Dr Richard Pearlstein from Chicago Illinois, who was the world’s leading Doctor at the time on cerebral palsy. And even though Dr Pearlstein was fully booked for the next two years, Bernie Lofchick set his name down for standby, just in case anyone cancelled. And just as fate would have it, 11 days later a little boy from Australia 🇦🇺 cancelled. The Lofchicks bundled up David and flew him from Winnipeg Canada to Chicago Illinois, United States. There the Doctors poked and probed young David like he had never been poked and probed before. When all was said and done, they confirmed to the Lofchicks what they had feared most. They said “this little boy is a spastic, he has cerebral palsy. He will never be able to walk or talk or count to ten…if you listen to the profits of doom.”

What made it worst, Doctors at a leading University also examined young David and reported that he has no motor connections on the right side of his body. Therefore he will never be able to stand up straight, much less play and be a normal boy. Nevertheless, Dr Pearlstein said, “I am solution oriented, not problem oriented. David can have a normal life, but you must do everything I tell you, and once you start, you can’t stop, and you can’t give up. It is not something you can do for today, tomorrow, or the next five years. It’s something you will have to do forever.” Well you can imagine desperate parents saying to the Dr, “just tell us Doc, whatever it is, whatever it will take for our son to have a normal life, just tell us and we will do it.” So Dr Pearlstein gave them and exercise plan for David, and told them that they are going to have to work him beyond all human endurance, and then they will still have to work him some more. They would have to become patience personified, because it will be several months before they will ever even see any signs of improvement, but they must stick with it, because if they ever stopped, it would be right back to square one again. They said okay Doc, if that’s what it will take for our son to beat cerebral palsy, we will do it.

The Lofchicks went home. They didn’t have a lot of money, but they hired a body builder and a fitness expert to build a gymnasium in their basement for young David, and also to work with him. Two years passed before David could even move the length of his own body. Then finally, the Lofchicks got the call that they were dreaming of, waiting, praying and hoping for. Everybody rushed home, the sisters were there and also the neighbors. David was on the ground getting ready to do A SINGLE PUSH UP. And as that little body rose from the mat into the air, his effort were so great, there was not a dry inch of skin on his body. The exercise mat looked like someone had sprinkled water on it. And as that one single perfect 👌 push up was completed, everybody, from trainer, to parents, to sisters, to neighbors, everybody broke down into tears 😭. Tears of joy that is, because they all realized that happiness isn’t pleasure, happiness is VICTORY. By the time young David was 13 years old, he was doing as much as 1,100 push ups per day. He was running track 🏃, skating on the hockey 🏒 team, and riding the wheels off his 3rd bicycle 🚴. He was a genius in 7th grade Science and Math. Because the Lofchicks were Jewish, when it was time for his Bar Mitzvah, young David Lofchick walked into that ceremony tall, straight, handsome, and strong 💪. The same little boy the Drs said would never walk or talk or count to ten.

David Lofchick grew up to be a very successful Real Estate Agent, the best in Winnipeg Canada 🇨🇦 at the time. He was also happily married and had a beautiful family. He was also the only known victim of cerebral palsy, to ever qualify for a full, none rated 100k life insurance policy. All this came to pass because of the way his parents saw him versus the rest of the world. Now the question is, how do you see yourself?? Do you see yourself settling for what you are given, or do you see yourself taking all that life has to offer? Let me know. Thanks 🙏 for reading 📖 and God Bless You.

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Chinese Bamboo Trees Represent Your Goals & Dreams

Have you been working on a Dream for a while now but can’t see it come true yet? Well when you are met with obstacles on your way to manifesting your Dream, you should simply change your direction to reach your Goal 🥅, not your DECISION to do so. Are you aware of the growth process of the Chinese Bamboo Tree 🌲? It’s a bit similar to your Goals & Dreams. Everything in life that is worth while having, takes a little time.

The Chinese Bamboo Tree takes 5 years to grow. You plant the seed, and you fertilize and water the soil for 5 long years. At the end of that five years, when the spout finally bursts through the ground…The same tree that you didn’t see show any sign of growth for 5 years, in 6 weeks, it grows 90 feet tall. Now the Billion Dollar question is, did the Chinese Bamboo Tree grow 90 feet tall in 6 weeks, or in 5 years? The answer is obvious, it has to be 5 years…Because if at any point in time, you stopped cultivating the soil and nourishing the seed, it would have died in the ground.

For the 5 years when it wasn’t visible above ground, it was sending down roots, deep underground. Most times it’s the same growth process with your Goals & your Dreams, so don’t give up on them. Remember, if at anytime you stop nourishing them, they are going to die. Everything that is worth while having, is going to take a little time.

In a world 🌎 where “seeing with the eyes 👀 and not the spirit is believing”…You can imagine you working on a Dream that is taking roots underground first, before it springs up above ground, and you are there toiling away at it for a while, day in and day out, watering and fertilizing the bare ground, and people passing you, looking at you like you’re crazy?? Then when they can’t take it anymore, they say “hey! What you doing there?” And then you reply, “I’m growing a Chinese Bamboo Tree 🌲.” Then the person replies, “well, even Ray Charles and Stevie Wonder can see that there ain’t nothing happening.” Don’t you know that that’s how they will do you?…But you have to remember that in the going after your Dreams, nothing will ever take the place of sheer persistence. Don’t listen to negativity and stop watering 💦 and fertilizing your Dream. Don’t abandon it to die in the ground. Tune out negativity and the naysayers, and go after your Dream with everything in you. Live for what sets your soul on fire 🔥, and what sets you apart from the crowd. That is the only way to live. Let the world 🌎 know that you are here, let them know that you showed up, and let them know with passion, determination, honesty, and truth.

Again I say, everything that is worth while having, is going to take a little time, don’t give up on your Dream. God Bless You and Thanks 🙏 for reading 📖.

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